Meet Victoria
Welcome to a Place of Remembrance.
Here, you are invited to reconnect with the deep well of peace and wisdom within you, before your mind was conditioned by stressful habits and false beliefs. I’m here to support you in remembering.
Have you forgotten that you are not broken, and you don’t need fixing?
Have you forgotten that you are whole, worthy, and a unique expression of love?
Imagine releasing the habits and thought patterns that cause unnecessary suffering. Imagine feeling the freedom to choose where you direct your attention and how you shape your life. Imagine embodying self-love that transforms how you meet life and relationships. With confidence and clarity, you can create a life of ease, fulfillment, and purpose—by your design.
If you’re ready to connect with an experienced wisdom coach and therapist, I’m here to meet you where you are and support you to Raise Your State. Together, we’ll unlock your inner strengths and guide you to greater self-acceptance, self-respect, and self-trust. These foundational states guide you to make choices from what is true and authentic for you. By shedding unconscious beliefs and patterns, you’ll stop self-sabotaging and start living authentically.
For over 35 years, I’ve empowered students and clients around the world to release their menacing fears, unwind stress, and live more intentional lives. People discover how to shed old stories, release chronic anxiety and confusion, and step into clarity and joy.
I bring over three decades of experience as a transformational coach, psychotherapist, and yoga teacher. My qualifications include a Bachelor’s in Nursing, certification as an OB-GYN Nurse Practitioner, a Master’s in Psychology, and licensure as a Marriage and Family Therapist. I’m also a New Agreements Coach and Svaroopa-style yoga teacher, drawing from dreamwork and deep intuition in our sessions.
A strong foundation of my work comes from apprenticing with Miguel Ruiz, author of The Four Agreements.
“Be impeccable with your word. Don’t take anything personally. Don’t make assumptions. Always do your best.”
Learning these agreements is powerful beyond measure, yet living by them is a mastery. When you work with me, you learn to embody these agreements and become a master of your mind.
I invite you to join me as we create a safe and sacred place for me to listen and you to share where you are. Together we unwind the stressors that cloud your innate wisdom and love.
If you’d like to see if we’re a fit, I offer free 20-minute introductory sessions. Contact me at victoria@raiseyourstate.com to meet via Zoom or phone.
“Victoria, you have given me the tools to escape my suffering. There can be no greater gift! As you know, I have received teachings from many different venues, yet I was frustrated because I still couldn’t change. You have an uncanny perception that consistently challenges me to find truth and grow my authenticity. My life’s foundation has strength and stability from the simple and clear toolbox I have created from your work. You are a powerful blessing.”
“It was difficult for me to even admit how closed down I was. With so much deep meditation in my history I thought I should be more together, but that work hadn’t really shifted greatly in the areas that mattered most to me. I wanted to love. I was incredibly discouraged-disheartened. As I’ve worked the love-stalking practices with Victoria, my fear-based reality has been dismantling. I am for the first time in my life, actually happy–joyful to be alive each day. And still, months after my last trip to Teotihuacan, Mexico, with Victoria and Tos, the fear, at least as the tyrant of my life is gone. And with that, my heart is opening. Victoria is a brilliant facilitator, creating a safe space to bring out the tender places within me.”
“I could see changes in my friend. With a little skepticism, I decided to work with Victoria and keep an open mind. My goal was to open myself up to my emotions and to love. Through dreaming and personal sessions with Victoria, I quickly gained awareness of how my thoughts, actions and self-identity were controlled by my judgments and opinions about certain events in my life. Learning to recognize and let go of those judgments wasn’t easy. I was surprised to learn how decoding my dreams could heal wounds at a deep, emotional level. Victoria was an incredible guide through this process. She is insightful, compassionate and tough when I needed it, yet always with love, humor and absolutely no judgment. I still have a ways to go yet I am beginning to see how amazing it is to live my life with freedom, and the joy and peace that goes with it. I am very grateful to be going through this process and to have such a remarkable person to guide me through it.”